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婚俗风情系列--拜堂·开脸 

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  拜堂,在整个婚俗中占极为重要的位置。早先,人们对拜堂的仪式极讲究。在当地,拜堂大致有两种:一种是穿堂拜,另一种是正筵日晨拜。

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  今天的乡间,新郎新娘拜堂大多是在当日,也就是“穿堂拜”了。拖到第二天早晨的,极少。想来,怕是如今生活节奏快了的缘故。再者就是,以前迎新娘子的轿子船多为人力,拿船篙的汉子力气再大,总是有限的。碰到路途再远一点的,势必影响行驶速度。现今毕竟不一样了,轿子船大多是机械动力,速度快了许多,迎亲回来早了许多,不如让一对新人把堂拜了,主人家也就了了一桩事情。何必拖到明天呢!
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